MEET ARIANA
BOYFRIEND/ GIRLFRIEND? HOW TO TRANSITION INTO HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS THAT LAST FOREVER
September 19, 2019
My husband taught me how to transition romantic relationships into healthy relationships that lasts forever. I heard you sneeze. Common you’ll survive this.There is absolutely nothing new under the sun. Let’s say King Solomon started it when the Queen of Sheba fell in love with his great wisdom . She was enthralled by his intelligence and crossed mountains to reach Him. The Queen was smitten by The King’s intelligence. He had other plans, how would He turn one of the richest women on Earth into his biggest investor. Clever Chap huh?
Very recently I had an encounter that ‘ changed my life’ an interview with one of Africa’s leading entrepreneurs. He said- for every situation that’s thriving, there must be people enabling that environment. It’s always a case of whose benefiting. So back to the story, King Solomon was quick to assess and position himself to be aligned with the Queen of Sheba.
Not to bore you with the details but it was said that this King was not only crazy rich but was equally wise. In our times – He would have collected numerous entrepreneur of the year awards- lol. Solomon knew how to multiply his gifts, he read the signs and understood strategic partnerships. Interestingly Queen Sheba was equally motivated and so their businesses aligned.
Secret # 1
In today’s world we often mistake great business partnerships for romantic relationships. You can change attraction to opportunities. If you are a business person, you’ll relate that it’s easier to work with people you admire than ones you don’t really care about. That’s secret #1, deep admiration helps upkeep our joy bank; supplies you serotonin and makes you happy. Human beings thrive when they are in a joyful state.
Secret # 2
Passion at work! This has been missing in the work scene for decades now. People have become so familiar in creating machines that we are trading our blood for wires and commands. Where is the love and commitment towards work. It’s always so exciting to see people who are genuinely enjoying work. This is not tied to your accomplishments or ambitions, it’s really about people who take pride in their work. That cleaner that gives you a smile, the boss that’s so involved with operations and knows your daughter’s birthday. When you have a physical/ spiritual connection with someone, you want to be with them. If you are hatching up a plan or working on a business idea together- don’t you think it would be fabulous?
Secret #3
We take risks for the people we admire. Enough said. Nothing to be added- right? I will never forget a scene that I witnessed not so long ago. A tiny-framed man trying to carry his cute-chubby wife, he was invested in ensuring that she got to the hospital on time. No hesitation, all love; even when the attendants rushed to him with a gurney. He braved it through, smiling with love. Find you a healthy relationship that will take risks with you. That person whose ulterior motive is to see you happy and whole.
I hope these three secrets will help you invest into healthier relationships at work and with friends. We live in a world where toxicity rules,breaking the cycle is going to require total dedication.
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