MEET ARIANA
It’s been weeks since my visit to the Vagina Museum , this experience piqued my interest in writing Vagina Diaries and speaking with other women about their Sexual Reproductive Health and Rights. Interestingly, many of these women had never taken time to view their Vagina’s – they cannot tell you it’s shape, colour, size, how it smells and how it makes them feel. Mainly because at some point in their lives, they were told not to pay attention to it and if they did it made them bad, sinful, lustful and cheap.
Wow !!!this is deep.. thank you Aunty Ariana
Hmm!!!! This is deep
Wow Love this very educative 🥰
Wow!!!
Amazing, thanks so much Ariana. The message was clear and educative..
This piece is worth every read. Love it!👌🏾
It’s Very Educative♥️👏 Thanks Ma’am
Wow like 😯 wow, I have learnt a lot after reading this about sex life
What a relatable article . Thanks for putting into words our daily experience with our favorite organs.
Thanks for educating ,especially the area of sex during periods
A good read we need to change the narrative thanks Arianna
A great read and worth exploring! We often times shy away from this topic. Thanks Ariana
Interesting read
Intriguing read
Intriguing read
Sex is as old as time. Yet we still treat it like some big giant secret. The first time I used a mirror to check myself out was after the birth of my second daughter. I had a tear and I wanted to know how bad it was. What I have learnt is that the more comfortable we are with our bodies then the better we are enjoying and exploring our sexual desires.
Wow wow thank u
Wow! This is brave & informative. Thank you Ariana for speaking out on what I call ” the hush subject” in most family circles and particularly in our local setting in West Africa.
Sex is beautiful 😊. Orgasm & reaching “cloud 9” is just extraordinarily beautiful. As I grow older, I realised that not all women can attest to this or blessed to have experienced this beauty at some point or even at all.
Maybe I was just lucky to embrace me, my body and my feminine self in a positive way ; maybe because my parents were open or approachable or because my mum worked with Reproductive Health Organisations for many years (UNFPA & PPASL). So many materials to read or information gathered here and there during many workshops I eavesdropped on during my teenage years while waiting for my mum to finish work so we can all go home together; or maybe it’s just me 😊; but whatever the reason, I’m grateful I did got curious on related topic & I’m not shy to share thoughts on this .
My sweetest experience is sex during pregnancy… my best so far 😘. That height of pleasure and excitement I had only experienced during pregnancies. . . it was so good that if I could, I will get pregnant again… just so that I go through that exceptional sexual fulfilment 🤪. Particularly for my first born ( I’m blessed with three children). My husband and I had sex every day or every other day. I craved for sex during pregnancy and enjoyed love making everytime. We had sex at around midnight, I gave birth to our son at 2:15 a. m … like the Hebrew Woman… just one big push and the baby came flying out. From the first struck of labour pain to the time of delivery = less than 45 minutes.
From your Diary I’ll take away 2 things:-
1. “Sex till you drop” ( at least until that time that I do not have the energy or desire for it; I pray its not too soon (Lol 🤣). Sex makes my skin glow and help releases unnecessary unconscious stress.
2. The self examination of my vagina. I have never done that purposefully. I am definitely going to do so as prescribed above so I get the details I have never paid attention to; for e.g colour. I could have done this right away but unfortunately, today is the heaviest day of my monthly menstruation (day 2)… nature will not permit me to do so or even if I do, I may not get real results.
I agree with you on this…parents should talk more on this topic especially the male child.
Women should be kind to every part of their body. . .even the “private parts”. It helps you know & understand the YOU in you. 🤷♀️
Thank you for being so honest and vulnerable with your thoughts and experiences. We love it!
Wow! This is deep and so intresting I have to read twice just to digest it in properly. Thanks Ariana
It was a nice read.Thanks Ariana
This is interesting! It is worth the read… thank you Ariana
It really does help me to know more about my sex life and my private part…
Very interesting and education I enjoyed reading it.